Be honest with yourself – Much Love, Deb Poems ~ Fresh & Thought~Provoking

Talking About Death Word

Aug 2, 2025

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The poem encourages people to use straightforward terms like “Died” and “Dead” instead of euphemisms like “Passed Away.” It suggests that being honest about death is a healthy practice and promotes clarity in discussions about such a sensitive topic. Just be real and say it how it is!

Hair Lying

Jun 19, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Conscious Death Anxiety, Health, Organic, Self Reflection

The poem reflects on the transformative nature of dye and its attempt to evoke nostalgia for a time when one’s hair was authentic. It captures the essence of change and a longing for past beauty. The work is credited to Deb Poems and inspired by an article from the Irish Examiner.

A Surprise Softness

Mar 10, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Business, Conscious Death Anxiety, Earth, education, Enlightenment, Government, Gratitude, Healing, Health, love, Media, Organic, Politics, relationships, Self Reflection

The poem expresses a longing for connection and vulnerability, emphasizing a decrease in arrogance and an openness to kindness. It reflects on the significance of these emotions in the context of a stranger’s interaction, all while framing this sentiment within the notable setting of The White House Oval Office.

Let’s Talk About Me Me Me Me

Mar 9, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Non-conscious death anxiety, relationships

In this raw exploration of couple’s therapy, a speaker laments the fading connection, longing for the partner to be a willing puppet, effortlessly fulfilling desires. Once a tool for their vibrant existence, intimacy now feels like a distant memory. The cry for understanding and shared purpose resonates painfully amidst the disillusionment of feeling insignificant.

Anti-Liberal? Anti-Conservative?

Mar 4, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Politics, Self Reflection

The content questions the effectiveness of targeting and attacking perceived inferiors, suggesting an internal conflict between liberal and conservative viewpoints. It invites self-reflection on personal behaviors and motivations, accompanied by the signature “Much Love, Deb Poems,” and a link to a relevant video.

Thank you David Brooks

Mar 4, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in education, Gratitude, Healing, Health, Media, Politics, relationships, Self Reflection

Deb expresses appreciation for conservative historian David Brooks, highlighting his ability to clarify cultural complexities. She shares a recommendation for viewers to watch Dr. Sheldon Solomon’s video on authoritarianism, using Trump as an example. Deb includes a screenshot of Brooks’ words from a different lecture, emphasizing her admiration.

Trolling Me?

Mar 2, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Self Reflection

This piece confronts the cowardice of adults tossing their unresolved guilt onto others instead of confronting their own mess. In a society rife with name-calling and procrastination, it challenges us to examine our cowardly tendencies and messy personal lives—

How True Wise

Mar 2, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in education, Self Reflection

The content questions the necessity of respect, loyalty, and consistency when loyalty can be misplaced. It critiques the harshness of enduring lies, the rigidity of unchanging perspectives, and the misinterpretation of honest disagreement as disrespect. The piece urges reflection on these complex dynamics in relationships.

The Perfect Movie Theater

Feb 28, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in education, Enlightenment, Gratitude, Healing, Health, love, Self Reflection

Boredom is a silent killer, turning life into a monotonous loop. Yet, amidst the apathy, lies a ticket to your own cinematic journey—a path where your passions ignite and addiction to dullness fades away. Choose your narrative, relish the bliss, and remember: you control the show or sink into endless yawn.

when don’t feel like living

Feb 21, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Broken, Health

Your body communicates its needs, urging you to stop any harmful treatment. By listening and complying with its demands, you may find peace and quiet within. Embracing this silence can be a positive sign, indicating that things are improving. Trust in the process for a healthier relationship with yourself.

the Real Deep State

Feb 11, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Non-conscious death anxiety, Self Reflection

Nonconscious Death Anxiety lurks within our minds, causing us to perceive imagined threats. Instead of confronting this anxiety, many continue to battle these illusions, feeling unsatisfied and heroic. The struggle against these vague fears reflects our minds’ inadequacy in handling uncertainty and the unknown. Understanding this may lead to greater clarity.

More Reassuring Than You

Jan 28, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Earth, family, gardening, Healing, Health, Home, Organic, relationships, Self Reflection

The poet reflects on the comfort found in everyday objects and experiences, such as grocery bags, familiar scents, and favorite artistic pieces. These elements of home provide reassurance and stability in life, overshadowing human connections. The memory of a single cherished individual remains a source of solace amidst this personal landscape.

A Marriage of Confusion

Jan 27, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Conscious Death Anxiety, education, family, Healing, Home, relationships, Self Reflection

The poet expresses the disorienting experience of being married to someone with mental confusion, conveying feelings of confusion and stagnation amidst physical stability. Daily life includes a struggle to communicate, coupled with a desire for clarity in both the home environment and marital interactions, marked by emotional challenges and unspoken doubts.

The Cut Diamonds of Grief

Jan 26, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Broken, education, family, gardening, Healing, Health, Home, Organic, relationships, Self Reflection

Grief is a complex, multifaceted emotion that can evolve and affect our lives in profound ways. Instead of striving for a polished, socially acceptable form of grief, we should embrace its raw state, recognizing its unique beauty and value. It’s essential to honor our feelings authentically rather than comparing them to societal expectations.

Static Radio

Jan 24, 2025

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Deborah Marchant’

in Broken, Conscious Death Anxiety, education, family, Health, Home, relationships, Self Reflection

The post reflects a parent’s mental struggle with anxiety and fear surrounding their children’s safety. It explores the burden of dark thoughts, the exhaustion of parenting, and the emotional turmoil that can arise from constant worry about loss. This internal conflict may lead to feelings of inadequacy and distress.

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