Category: Self Reflection
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Death is not the Devil
The poem expresses a struggle with internal beliefs and fears, questioning the origins of these thoughts. The poet confronts their brain for instilling fear, likening it to bullying and expressing a desire for empathy instead of fear. It emphasizes the emotional turmoil caused by these frightening narratives.
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Why Gratitude Works
A Gratitude Meetup Group metaphor fosters safety and connection, enhancing mental well-being and resilience, leading Gratitude participants to experience increased positivity and healthier interpersonal relationships.
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Looking at the Open Opened Mind
The post describes a metaphorical mind space marked “Always Open,” encouraging openness to new ideas and perspectives. Positive reviews highlight its welcoming nature, relaxed atmosphere, and excellent problem-solving opportunities. Visitors express gratitude for the unique environment that fosters creativity and promotes values like cooperation and global peace.
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Did your Dad, Uncle, Cousin, Brother, Neighbor, TV Actor, Sister, Aunt, Mother, Teacher, Grand Dad, Grand Mother
This piece invites introspection about how childhood experiences shape political views and fears. It encourages readers to reflect on past traumas and their emotional impact, prompting questions about current beliefs and voting behaviors. By examining these connections, individuals can gain clarity and understanding of their motivations in a compassionate manner.
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What Humbles You?
The content explores the concept of humbling experiences, questioning where and how they occur, who is involved, and their frequency. It contrasts humiliating humility with a positive, open-minded kind that promotes change. It invites reflection on personal moments of changing one’s mind and the reasons behind those transformations.
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The “Call For Perfection” Fallacy
You want me to agree to impossible conditions. Stop trying to divert me and yourself away from what you are doing. Be honest. You have no intentions of thinking deeper about this issue. Instead, you are raising nothing but objections. Just admit you are a Scared Mental Thinker and that your mind is self-protectively closed.…
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A Hypocrites Mind Switch
In a moment of reflection, the writer expresses a sense of confusion and vulnerability, grappling with unexpected emotions and thoughts. They emphasize the importance of consistency and humility, suggesting that adhering to the Golden Rule can guide one through life’s challenges, encouraging a shift toward feeling more alive despite uncertainty.
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LovingMyLife
In this reflective piece, the author contemplates the journey of self-actualization, expressing gratitude for the love and care received throughout life. They ponder the factors contributing to their experiences, including race and memory, ultimately embracing the complexities that shape our identities. The tone conveys warmth and introspection.
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Critical Thinking Stuffed Inside Basement Barrels
(A heads-up: this poem is for mature readers.) Critical thinking stuffed inside basement barrels by the serial killer inside the human skull, that cuts off open arms of fair and balanced objective reasoning, cuts out the heart of empathetic, unselfish, non-controlling motives, strangles the throat, and stabs the eyes, of public discourse that have the…
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Question the Trust the Gut
The post emphasizes the importance of critical thinking to clear harmful biases and assumptions that hinder personal growth. It encourages individuals to question gut feelings and societal norms, promoting self-exploration and honesty to overcome mental stagnation. The message advocates for a transformative lifestyle through mindful questioning and open-mindedness.
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Not Listened to Enough
When words fail, try a hug, or help a lost soul find their way home—like yourself! Maybe ditch the dissertation and hum in the shower instead. Let’s face it, who wants to hear your endless complaints? Just watch your own mouth rant in the mirror, soon even your gut’ll get bored!
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Death Takes Care of Itself
The poem’s message encourages embracing the present and letting go of worries about the future. It reflects on the joy brought by pets, highlighting the importance of living in the moment. The poet acknowledges the struggle of staying present but resolves to focus on what can be controlled and accept life’s uncertainties.
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The Cut Diamonds of Grief
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in Broken, education, family, gardening, Healing, Health, Home, Organic, relationships, Self ReflectionGrief is a complex, multifaceted emotion that can evolve and affect our lives in profound ways. Instead of striving for a polished, socially acceptable form of grief, we should embrace its raw state, recognizing its unique beauty and value. It’s essential to honor our feelings authentically rather than comparing them to societal expectations.
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Inland Adults
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Adult Children, snug in their cozy cocoons, naively dismiss global warming, as mere bedtime tales told by Coastal People. They’re lulled into complacency, believing in fairy tales rather than facing harsh realities. As the ocean rises, they remain pampered and idle, swaddled inside their dry comfort.
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Abusively Mothering Governance
The post reflects on the 2016 US Presidential Election, expressing disillusionment with Hilary Clinton, whom the author describes as manipulative and emotionally immature. Supporters of Bernie Sanders felt used by the Democratic establishment. Clinton’s dismissal of Donald Trump’s supporters as “deplorables” echoed the negativity they experienced in their own lives.
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A Terrified Hat
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In a world overwhelmed by chaos and endless struggles for supremacy, the content reflects a poignant disillusionment. The poet questions the cyclical nature of violence. Drawing inspiration from MAD Magazine, the poem expresses a sense of boredom and resignation. The plea “Why-O-Why?” underscores a longing for understanding amidst chaos. Ultimately, this is a heartfelt commentary…
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Don’t Forget Why We’re Here
This poem reflects on uncertainty and forgetfulness regarding the purpose for being. It questions if the reasons were ever truly communicated or if it was simply missed. There is a sense of frustration over the lack of clarity and a desire to revisit the explanation, pondering whether it ever existed.
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Inspect & Protect Daily
the straps of your body and life that hold you together. Don’t let poverty, being a child, a young male, and an elder loosen a firm and snug grip on your body. https://www.who.int/news-room/fact-sheets/detail/injuries-and-violence#:~:text=Injuries%20and%20violence%20are%20a,risk%20of%20injury%20and%20violence. Run your hands over your head face mouth neck chest legs, check for damage. Do what you can control. Hang out, Store…
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A Late College Assignment
Nearly half a century ago, I penned a story that deeply moved my female instructor, earning an A+. It captured a visit to an older woman’s home, adorned with red velvet roses—a testament to the enduring beauty, music, and the profound love she nurtured in her tranquil solitude. Much love, Deb.
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Who Waters You?
The urgent cries of your body for hydration reflect a deep need for care and sustenance. Fear of dehydration manifests in physical strain and distress. By nurturing yourself, as you would a plant, you can alleviate this suffering and avoid painful consequences. Embrace the importance of replenishing your body with love and attention.
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The Internet Can’t
In a heartfelt plea, the author reminds us that genuine connection and a fulfilling life extend beyond the limitations of the internet. Emphasizing the importance of real experiences, they reflect on the inability of digital interactions to provide comfort, safety, or emotional connection, urging us to prioritize our relationships with one another.
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Empty Swing
In a poignant tribute, the swing dangles from a tree, an emblem of enduring grief and longing. Marking another year without a child, “In Loving Memory” encapsulates the heart-wrenching love and loss that persists over time.
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For Rent
In a world where our daily lives are confined from 8 to 5, hidden emotions and experiences fill our spaces—bedrooms, closets, and tools. If we could share our true selves and understand one another better, we might cultivate a deeper peace and connection among all. Much love echoes through these reflections.
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Shootings at 6
A.M.? What gives!? Gun shooting at peaceful pigeon doves – a Sunday morning hobby. Snubbing noses at nearby Asleep, falsely feeling secure, church goers. ©️January 2025 Much Love, Deb Poems This Poem is inspired by real live events in my rural neighborhood. The police were called by one of my good neighbors. It was a…
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death anxious parenting
The poem explores the intrusive nature of parents who hover over their children, symbolized by flying helicopters. It illustrates how this overwhelming presence can negatively impact children’s emotions and perceptions, emphasizing the damaging effects of excessive scrutiny and control in their lives.
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Earn It
The content discusses the benefits of being aware of death and preparing for it throughout life. It highlights how this awareness leads to better protections against regrets and unhealthy loyalties. The advice for a meaningful life and death includes honesty and authenticity, ultimately fostering a clear conscience and a well-considered legacy.
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L.A.’s Professional Fires
This post seems to romanticize the hustle culture, portraying success as a relentless race fueled by adrenaline and flashy achievements. It suggests that merely showing up guarantees trophies and recognition. One must question the depth of this narrative, as it appears more focused on appearances than genuine accomplishment or fulfillment.
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The faintably fainting brain
The poem describes a metaphorical fall, suggesting weak critical thinking led to an unforeseen event. The imagery of falling down conveys a need for grounding and clarity. It reflects on the importance of awareness and foresight, indicating a moment of realization that arises from being grounded in one’s surroundings.
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Seeing the Fire Wider
In Los Angeles, there exists a knowledgeable perspective that understands and appreciates deeper truths, offering guidance and insight to those seeking enlightenment and clarity.
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Stay and Rest in Peace
is an alternative lifestyle, another choice death restless anxious Americans are overlooking. Already moved, plan to move, hoping to move to ”where they treat me best”. There is no escape for Americans, in Switzerland, Thailand, Spain and the Philippines, from death – the allusions of miles moved away from the scary USA is a tiny…
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Why you like some poems more than others…
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Some Like It Hot
The content reflects the resilient lifestyle of old sailors living vibrantly in Puerto Rico despite challenges, embracing full adventure and shedding human pride. It highlights the significance of the region’s aging population compared to the mainland, emphasizing both the beauty and struggles of life amid nature’s extremes.
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Deeplyer Question Genius
The post critiques modern inventions and the arrogance of those in prestigious institutions who dismiss the Earth’s inherent wisdom. It emphasizes that true intelligence lies beneath our feet, as humanity obscures vital connections in pursuit of technological solutions. The critique argues that this ignorance leads to self-humiliation and destruction.
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Surfer’s Wide Sad Eyes on Land,
In a world of rigid, tense figures, the beauty of freedom and joy emerges vividly. Amidst careful movements in mundane spaces, the essence of life flashes like vibrant sea birds in flight, embracing the waves with unburdened spirits. Here is a powerful contrast between confinement and the exhilarating taste of true liberation.
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From My Critical Thinking Teacher’s Desk
I saw you squirming in your seat, turning to look out the window, after I asked the class,”What is blocking us from thinking wise?” We both began watching a lizard on the glass window, running from a snake on the outside window ledge. I watched you cringe. your eyes blinking fast. your chest heave and…
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Discerning
Understanding the distinctions between arrogance and confidence, as well as pessimism and practicality, is crucial for personal growth. These insights can liberate you from burdensome defenses, alleviating emotional weight and allowing for genuine empathy. Embracing clarity in communication fosters deeper connections, enriching life rather than letting it sink into dread.
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At Peace with Memory Loss
I poured a new cup of hot coffee. The first cup is lost in the house. Later on I’ll find it, like a hidden stash for later on. ©️January 2025 Much Love, Deb Poems
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A Welcomed Mausoleum
In her heartfelt poem, Deb expresses a desire for simplicity in her final resting place, requesting her ashes be buried beneath a birdbath. This symbolizes a nurturing legacy, where a small gesture can bring joy to others, reminding us of the beauty in caring for our community and the world around us.
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Grassy Freedom
The poem illustrates a compassionate figure freeing trafficked horses, drawing a powerful parallel to child protective services saving children from abusive situations, indifferent to societal judgment.
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As You Choose
You alone can lighten the burden or make it intolerable. The way of your death is yours and yours alone. Only you can go the distance to the end. Death’s doorway is too narrow for more than one, at a time. Dying with and for freedom is bravely dying living it out, as you choose.…
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Ingredients of a ‘High Vibes Only’ Meal That Causes Serious Bloating
Embrace the ironic spectacle: white privilege paired with Tibetan Singing Bowls, affluent beach vacations, and The Beach Boys’ “Good Vibrations.” This bittersweet medley highlights a superficial ascent from the masses, all while the High Vibe Only tribe perpetuates harm under the guise of enlightenment. Reality check: ascension isn’t so glamorous.
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Why Fireworks? – Dedicated to my good neighbor Maria in Noisy Puerto Rico
Fireworks? What is a basic human why of them? Setting off explosives won’t cure poor diets, indigestion and constipation. Sure. The excitement & suspense physically clinches, presses on internal organs and sphincter holes, squeezing out toxins to keep on drinking and eating in. Sure. Late night boredom and fear of the dark is within seconds ignored. In a…
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How about writing an existential poem about Christmas: a Christmas Spirit is not required
Want to pen an existential poem? Just remember: everything is meaningless, but at least your poem can rhyme. Embrace the void with a splash of creativity!
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Christmas? What’s Going On With You?
In a poignant reflection on life’s fleeting nature, the poem challenges the significance of traditions and illusions, suggesting that even Santa could tire of his role and declare life’s meaninglessness. It echoes a rebellious spirit, urging us to confront the deeper truths behind our customs and beliefs.
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Real Organic Good To Do
Blood tainted by industry renders everything profane. In a world of apathy and smoke, true organic goodness remains. Choose authenticity over the sterile embrace of corruption.
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A Two Day Visit is Okay
In a primal dance of predator and prey, our hidden instincts clash, revealing the chaotic tension beneath civilized facades. Connection falters, rooted in fear and buried animalistic truths.
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To Help Heal Betrayals
Betrayal is a universal wound, seeping into our very existence. This reflection urges us to excavate not just personal betrayals but the primal betrayal of being born into a treacherous world. We’re all caught in this cycle. It’s time to confront these pains, not just for ourselves but for those who betrayed us.
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On the Road at Nightime
The content portrays the noisy environment created by loud cars, music, and roadside bars, likening it to animals calling for mates while disturbing others’ peace.
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Can’t Make a Big Decision?
The text explores the complexities of decision-making about life and mortality, using vivid imagery of nature and memories to illustrate the interconnectedness of past experiences and wisdom. It emphasizes that answers to life’s challenges lie within our shared existence with all living beings.
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How Do You Know When You’re Right?
Do we find satisfaction in others’ pain or near-misses? This reflection interrogates our darker impulses, challenging the morality behind fleeting glimmers of happiness.
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Stop Digging Little Holes
They’re not getting you anywhere away from a divorce death of a child and a violent assault Nor will this digging shallow escape you from overcrowding witnessing violence, and a guilty conscience Avoiding, denying, targeting, attacking, are the little holes you keep digging into There is no escape found in them to be found. A…
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What We Can’t Sue
Ever thought about suing life? It’s a tough case because gravity, tornadoes, and even your grumpy old bones can’t take the stand. Imagine the chaos as earth tremors, viruses, and an avalanche try to defend themselves! Spoiler: courts don’t recognize them as defendants! Good luck with that!
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Will I Be Shocked?
when I suddenly die? Some say I won’t. But I don’t know about that, “She didn’t suffer”. Will the shock I feel last a few seconds, minutes, hours or days? How will I feel the waves of grieving in my dead body? Will I lie dead, silently protesting, when I already knew ahead about the…
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What to Do When It’s Futile
In this heartfelt piece, the author encourages small, nurturing actions to regain a sense of control and comfort amidst life’s chaos. Through simple tasks like washing dishes and gentle stretching, the emphasis is on self-care and kindness, culminating in loving hugs for oneself, fostering connection and compassion.
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What Haunts You
In a moment of raw truth, a comment on death anxiety provokes a visceral reaction—flagged and erased. Why suppress the haunting reality that gnaws at the psyche? The fear of mortality is pervasive, lurking long before any jarring words. Deleting the comment doesn’t exorcise the ghost; it amplifies it.
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Where We Die Has Meaning
The poem reflects on the inevitability of death, illustrating various places and circumstances in which individuals may die. It emphasizes that our deaths often mirror how we lived, portraying a spectrum of life experiences from joy and relaxation to tragedy and loss. Ultimately, it suggests that the context of death holds significance.
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No Apology Greeting Cards
In a town where only attorney-approved greeting cards are available, genuine apologies for serious wrongdoings are banned. Instead, generic cards celebrating occasions dominate the stands. This highlights a troubling reality, where heartfelt sentiments are stifled by legal concerns, leaving no space for authentic remorse or acknowledgment of hurt.
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My poems help solve social problems
They go in sideways, silently and unexpectedly, with different perspectives. They make things better, not worse. Thank you for being here.
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”Invictus” is a motivation poem about heroism and the denial of death
This content expresses Deb’s journey of using poetry as a heroic response to death anxiety, aiming to inspire and alleviate destructive reactions. Through sharing her work, she hopes to foster understanding and compassion among all.
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Paid to Be Positive
A boy dreams of getting paid for being positive, and as he grows up, he, along with others, makes a living by spreading positivity.
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At Peace with Politics
It’s about staying calm in politics while promoting love, honesty, and creativity, and finding peace despite life’s challenges. Embrace beauty and positivity!
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Free Schooling
Sign up for No Cares College! Tuition’s zero, lessons in lounging by a lake, and exams? Nah, just enjoy life. Who knew ungrading could be so fulfilling?
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The Misunderstood Word
Lost in a wordy haze, I thought my book was a snooze-fest—turns out, I was just poorly interpreting it! Who knew vocabulary could be so colorful?
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Will I Look Mean When I am Dying?
A haunting dilemma: Should one confront sudden death or endure a drawn-out end? Reflection brings solace—after all, even in solitude, one’s impact endures.
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Female Rising
The era of male dominance is crumbling. Women are rising, resilient and forgiving, ready to lead alongside men. Embrace this transformative moment of unity and strength.
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Your Brain is Jesus and Your Guardian Angel
In a fervent ode to the brain’s chemistry, Deb Poems glorifies the ecstatic dance of neurotransmitters, exalting their divine role in salvation and joy. Alleluia!
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Breathe
The content reflects a sense of urgency and distress in modern life, where people are overwhelmed by a rapid pace that leaves them restless and unfulfilled. It urges a need for a pause, encouraging individuals to reconnect with the Earth and themselves through slowing down and breathing deeply.
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Listen
I am wondering what we sound like – out in space. What with the bombings, we must appear to be noisy angry neighbors – to the stars. But maybe no one is listening – out there. The violent shrapnel is useless, when it comes to being heard. Maybe we all can for just one day,…
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