Category: relationships
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Unforgiveness
Unforgiveness can be a deceptive security guard, shielding us from those we’ve unfairly and fairly deemed dangerous. It locks away feelings of safety, often healthily protecting us from repeat offenders. No act of kindness or apology can dismantle its grip. It’s a heavy yet convenient reminder, haunting us with the burden of unresolved grievances that…
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”The Thinker’s Guide To Fallacies” – a handy PDF guide
In a self-proclaimed heroic act, the author flaunts their valuable insights on Substack, inviting readers to glean wisdom from a supposed treasure trove of information. But are these gems truly enlightening, or just another masquerade? Dive in and decide for yourself if the brilliance shines or merely glitters.
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Did You Let Someone Down?
Love is not just an emotion; it’s about making others feel it deeply. By revisiting the neglected insight that creates moments of connection, you can dry the tears and create a comfortable space to reflect on what truly matters. Together, embrace love and overcome death anxiety that overshadows your bond.
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Evasive Vacation
This poem’s summer vacation turned into a nightmare of disillusionment, crushed by the weight of death anxiety. Instead of finding solace, and transported from the burdens—of work stress and family conflicts—death anxiety’s baggage came along. What was meant to be an escape became a painful reminder that fun and peace is elusive and expectations can…
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Superior Force – Movie
“Superior Force” reveals the raw truth of death anxiety as a family faces an avalanche at a ski resort. The father’s instinctive, flawed reaction of panic exposes the deeper emotional struggle within us all. Rather than demonizing him, we should acknowledge that fear can often render us unheroic in moments of crisis.
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LMAO
Death anxiety grips us all, yet many dismiss it with hollow laughter. This shallow reaction reveals more about their fear than the profound truth behind confronting mortality. Ignoring this anxiety doesn’t erase it; it festers beneath the surface, cloaked in humor. Are we truly brave, or merely cowardly jesters?
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Why the Shyness With Online Trollers?
This poem explores the impact of death anxiety on human interactions, particularly online trolling. It suggests that rudeness often stems from individuals projecting their insecurities and fears. By recognizing this, one can respond thoughtfully and assertively, encouraging accountability while maintaining peace and stability in their own life amidst negativity.
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What Drives Academia?
Every academic discipline reflects a fundamental human desire to deny death and death anxiety. Failures across various fields—medicine, economics, political science, psychology, and journalism—can lead to death.
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Iceskating
Our astonishing and refreshing dating led to our mystically co-creating years of reactivating the smoothly cutting through gliding over the cold ice hard surface of of spiritual materialism. “As soon as we cast something in a role, as soon as we put a label on it, as soon as we name it and give it…
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Not Set In Steel Steve
Steve, a skilled carpenter and my husband of over 30 years, embodies the qualities of wood—flexible, sustainable, and versatile. Despite nearing 80, he remains adaptable and inventive. Our bond is strong, likened to his relationship with wood, enriching the lives of those around him. He is truly invaluable.
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Transgender
The term “transgender” represents a significant modern acknowledgment of diverse gender identities, drawing on the rich history of various non-binary figures throughout the ages. This inclusion enhances human experience, recognizing both struggles and triumphs of those in fluid gender roles. Acceptance fosters connection, challenging societal judgments.
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Long in Losting
Embrace the chaos of feeling lost – it’s not just absence but a state of existence. Accepting feeling lost means you’ve actually discovered a deeper connection, one that reveals your true self. Accepting this confusion could lead to an unexpected understanding that our truest selves is living in a fog, humbling admitting uncertainty, and being…
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The Secret Companion
In this heartfelt reflection, “The Secret” emerges as a comforting companion, offering connection and understanding amidst solitude. It emphasizes the value of having an inner confidant that provides support and fosters peace, creating a nurturing space for personal growth and intimacy. Much Love, Deb Poems conveys warmth and strength in this relationship.
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The Violence
This poem honors truth-tellers and scapegoats who disavow deception and superficiality, emphasizing the importance of authenticity over societal pressures. Ultimately, it advocates for living genuinely, unadorned by lies.
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Let Life Down
The piece dives into the struggle of letting go and dealing with self-imposed disappointments. It reflects on the idea that clinging to certain beliefs can be tough but acknowledges that embracing life’s flow is essential. In the end, it’s about finding peace with what is.
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Now That I’m Dead
In this reflective piece, the author encourages embracing a slower pace in life, particularly in moments filled with distractions and responsibilities. By comparing this slow-down to recovery from numbness, it highlights the importance of taking time for oneself, suggesting that just as in infancy, we should allow ourselves to exist without the pressure of time.
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Melania’s SOS
So, during her first term, Melania Trump was about tackling cyberbullying. Now, in her second term, she’s taking on deepfake porn too. But honestly, does she realize she vibes like she’s got issues with her husband? Just a thought from Deb Poems, March 2025.
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Uncle Mercy
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In memory of Uncle Craig, his niece Debby expresses gratitude for his mercy during a challenging family time. He supported her in confronting the unfair perceptions stemming from their family’s dysfunction, providing comfort when it was most needed. His unexpected death left a profound impact, highlighting the significance of his mercy.
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Level Headedness
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To stay chill in this crazy world, just snack on some protein-packed peanut butter, get cozy in bed, and breathe easy! Forget paranoia and jail time—embrace a life filled with gratitude, love, and a sprinkle of humor. Remember, the key to calmness is much simpler than you think!
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Laughing It Off?
The post discusses the importance of civic duties like jury service, contrasting the dismissive attitude of Boeing’s president. It highlights struggles with addictions as self-imposed prisons and emphasizes the significance of good parenting. Ultimately, it reflects on life, death, and the inevitable acceptance of both personal and familial burdens.
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When Work Slows Down
and to keep a job, from a maintenance crew i heard ”Break something so that it needs repairing”. This wearily reminds me of how many times – I can’t count how many times people make up sorrows and troubles so they can swoop in and solve. This need to be needed often goes too far.…
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Why Gratitude Works
A Gratitude Meetup Group metaphor fosters safety and connection, enhancing mental well-being and resilience, leading Gratitude participants to experience increased positivity and healthier interpersonal relationships.
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Did your Dad, Uncle, Cousin, Brother, Neighbor, TV Actor, Sister, Aunt, Mother, Teacher, Grand Dad, Grand Mother
This piece invites introspection about how childhood experiences shape political views and fears. It encourages readers to reflect on past traumas and their emotional impact, prompting questions about current beliefs and voting behaviors. By examining these connections, individuals can gain clarity and understanding of their motivations in a compassionate manner.
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Critical Thinking Stuffed Inside Basement Barrels
(A heads-up: this poem is for mature readers.) Critical thinking stuffed inside basement barrels by the serial killer inside the human skull, that cuts off open arms of fair and balanced objective reasoning, cuts out the heart of empathetic, unselfish, non-controlling motives, strangles the throat, and stabs the eyes, of public discourse that have the…
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Question the Trust the Gut
The post emphasizes the importance of critical thinking to clear harmful biases and assumptions that hinder personal growth. It encourages individuals to question gut feelings and societal norms, promoting self-exploration and honesty to overcome mental stagnation. The message advocates for a transformative lifestyle through mindful questioning and open-mindedness.
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The Cut Diamonds of Grief
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in Broken, education, family, gardening, Healing, Health, Home, Organic, relationships, Self ReflectionGrief is a complex, multifaceted emotion that can evolve and affect our lives in profound ways. Instead of striving for a polished, socially acceptable form of grief, we should embrace its raw state, recognizing its unique beauty and value. It’s essential to honor our feelings authentically rather than comparing them to societal expectations.
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Inland Adults
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Adult Children, snug in their cozy cocoons, naively dismiss global warming, as mere bedtime tales told by Coastal People. They’re lulled into complacency, believing in fairy tales rather than facing harsh realities. As the ocean rises, they remain pampered and idle, swaddled inside their dry comfort.
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Abusively Mothering Governance
The post reflects on the 2016 US Presidential Election, expressing disillusionment with Hilary Clinton, whom the author describes as manipulative and emotionally immature. Supporters of Bernie Sanders felt used by the Democratic establishment. Clinton’s dismissal of Donald Trump’s supporters as “deplorables” echoed the negativity they experienced in their own lives.
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A Terrified Hat
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In a world overwhelmed by chaos and endless struggles for supremacy, the content reflects a poignant disillusionment. The poet questions the cyclical nature of violence. Drawing inspiration from MAD Magazine, the poem expresses a sense of boredom and resignation. The plea “Why-O-Why?” underscores a longing for understanding amidst chaos. Ultimately, this is a heartfelt commentary…
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I death triggered my mom
Growing up in a family paralyzed by fear of death, the author reflects on feeling like a source of terror rather than joy. Their father’s absence at birth and the emotional distance create a poignant connection to their struggles with anxiety and isolation.
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The Internet Can’t
In a heartfelt plea, the author reminds us that genuine connection and a fulfilling life extend beyond the limitations of the internet. Emphasizing the importance of real experiences, they reflect on the inability of digital interactions to provide comfort, safety, or emotional connection, urging us to prioritize our relationships with one another.
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Wonderfully Pure Simple Joys
A simple visit to a neighbor with a thoughtful gift blossomed into a delightful afternoon. Sharing tea and admiring her new washing machine, the joy of fresh sheets filled the air. The day concluded with a refreshing rain and a peaceful night under the stars, leaving a heart full of contentment.
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Viligence in the Kitchen
In a world where too many chefs cause culinary chaos, Deb Poems humorously reveals that the saying isn’t just a kitchen mantra; it’s a recipe for family feuds, food poisoning, and possibly a funeral with gravestones shaped like toilets. Who knew that cooking could lead to such stomach-churning scenarios? So, remember, when it comes to…
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Butterfly Penises
This is a poem about the automatic biological drive of human males to procreate, regardless of the wellbeing of human females.
Much Love, Deb Poems ~ Fresh & Thought~Provoking 